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Valentine’s Day in Japan – A Surprisingly Different, Gender-Oriented Chocolate Giving Culture!

Created 2/1/2024 3:29:25 PM in japan | culture |

Valentine’s Day in Japan might surprise you. Chocolate is given, yes, but to who? Mariam finds out.

 

 

Introduction

Valentine's Day in Japan is a chocolate-covered affair with a twist! 

In Japan, Valentine's Day isn't just chocolates and roses – they've got their own set of 'rules' that are strictly followed every February and a surprisingly different approach to celebrating love.  

 

Let's take a peek into Japan's unique celebration of February 14th, but be warned – you're in for puzzling love traditions and some 'really?' moments!

 

 

Love and Duty

When it comes to Valentine’s Day, Japan plays a whole different ball game with chocolate that comes with its own set of valued rules.'Giri-choco,' which means 'obligation chocolate,' is the go-to for pals, coworkers, and bosses — more about social duty than romance.

 

 

True Love's Chocolate

Then there's 'Honmei-choco,' or simply ‘true feeling chocolate’. It’s the love-drenched homemade chocolate that is only reserved for the true loves of your life – be it husbands, boyfriends, or that cutie you've been quietly eyeing! 

 

 

Celebrating Friendship

While romance takes center stage on Valentine's Day in Japan, the celebration extends beyond romantic love to honor true friendships. 'Tomo-choco,' which means friend chocolate, is all about spreading the love to your buddies, showing that this day is about all kinds of affection, not just for lovebirds!

 

This sweet tradition serves up a slice of Japan's rich gift-giving culture and its heartfelt meanings.

 

 

Flipping the Script

In Japan's Valentine's Day scene, it's the women who lead the charge, flipping the script on the usual men-make-the-first-move norm seen in many other cultures. 

 

There, it's the women who hand out chocolates to the man they fancy and others in their circle, romantic vibes or not. This day sees men taking a backseat, as women step up to gift not only their partners but also any man who holds a meaningful place in their lives.

 

 

Men's Turn

Do you feel it's a bit one-sided that women handle everything on Valentine's Day in Japan? Well, White Day make sure they receive the love back! 

 

This unique women-make-the-first-move Valentine's Day tradition stems from the existence of White Day, a sort of 'Valentine's Day in reverse' where men reciprocate with chocolates. 

 

White Day, celebrated exactly a month after Valentine's Day, marks the time for men to reciprocate the sweet gifts they've received.

 

 

Valentine's Aesthetics

For the Japanese, chocolate aesthetics matter as much as taste, as evident in their stunningly beautiful wrapping and presentation. This isn't just a chocolate exchange – it's a thoughtful, carefully presented gesture. 

 

Valentine's Day in Japan is a celebration of detail and beauty, marked by an impressive focus on chocolate aesthetics. Many chocolate boutiques and department stores in Japan create limited-edition Valentine's Day collections, collaborating with renowned artists and designers to offer unique and aesthetically pleasing chocolate creations. 

 

Attention to detail in chocolate presentation has transformed Valentine's Day in Japan into something more than sweet. It's the care, effort, and artistic flair in each gift that turn the tradition into a truly heartfelt and meaningful experience.

 

 

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About The Writer

Meet Mariam - a freelance writer whose heart beats for the captivating world of Japanese culture. She's fascinated by the breathtaking cherry blossom trees, the irresistible traditional dishes and snacks, the timeless fashion, the adorable natural makeup, and of course, the world-famous anime, just to name a few of her passions. Now, with boundless creativity and determination, she aims to deliver the most valuable content for readers to offer them a glimpse into her passions in life.

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